why la.

this topic. i've been wanting to write since like. erm cant remember but what i'm trying to say, a very very very long time ago.

sometimes people tend to be defensive when i asked regarding this matter. i'm not trying to condemn all smokers out there, i'm just trying to understand why. and ways to overcome it.

firstly i think is because they are not aware of the consequences. ok dearly beloved, here are some of the side effects of smoking. click here

then maybe, just maybe they do not know about the benefits of staying away from cigarette. click here

but actually, they fail to control their lust, keinginan mengatasi keperluan. many people failed to control kemahuan diri.

i even pernah jumpa seorang isteri, yg kena cancer x igt apa, i think nasopharyngeal cancer all bcos of her husband is an active smoker. nak tanya la encik2 smoking, apa perasaan awak? bini kena cancer just bcos of ur 'selfishness'. wow that's harsh.

kan dah keluar fatwa yg mengatakan smoking ni haram, sbb dia boleh mendatangkan mudarat kpd diri sendiri. sort of attempt utk membunuh diri jgk la.

n why la u guys have to be so defensive, kalau org tanya
sehari berapa batang? ke kotak?
kenapa korang isap rokok?
dah mmg korang buat kan?

x rs membazir ke? sekotak tu dah dpt satu boxer renoma kot?

n the reason why i'm asking is just fulfilling my curiosity. bukan nya nak bambu ke apa ke. just bcos i dont do it, so aku rs nak tau, tp tanak try.

hahah. cam dah lari tema pulak. actually nak ckp, i dont mind people who are smoking, *sampai ada org sumpah aku dpt husband yg smoking* tp learn to respect others la kan, udara di sekeliling ni kt share sama2, aku x kesah la kalau ko nak smoke tp jgnla smoke kat tpt2 terbuka, dlm mall* AKU MMG PANAS GL ORG SMOKE KAT DLM TPT AIRCOND TAU X CIRCULATION DIA SGT POOR* pastu sj hembus kat muka org nak grab attention, tu bkn nak attention, tu nak ayat pemaki diberi bertubi2 kot? tlg la, korang bkn nak smoke kat dlm tpt kebuk wasap pon, so learn to respect others la kan.

n i have no idea, mana la org boleh terfikir yg smoke tu macho. aduhai tlg la, it's a major turn off kot?

ok2. melalut gl. tiba2 emosi endup nak memaki semua smokers. ;p

ok bottom line, kalau korang nak smoke sila. x perlu la rs defensive sgt kalau aku tanya, it's just curiosity talking, xde niat nak judge korang ke apa.

and kalau aku tutup2 hidung korang tgh smoke, sila jgn nak berperangai 'alah-pmpn-ni-cam-bagus-sgt-dpt-laki-smoke-br-tahu'. what im doing is that i'm just trying to protect myself. tau tak effect aku kena lg teruk dr korang sbb aku sedut ikut hidung terus direct ke lung? aku tanggung lebih kot? aku ni dah cukup mengandungi pelbagai masalah kesihatan turun temurun+ berbadan cilik molek so mmg kena extra precautionssss.

and tlg la jgn nak menipu wahai si lelaki konon2 ko x smoke utk mendapatkan pmpn yg diingini pastu sampai mati mmg korang tkn admit yg korang smoke pdhl ko isap cam cerobong kapal. merepek. kalau dah dr awal dah menipu, x ke seksa pas tu korang nak being honest nak btau ko smoke? lg down kot pmpn yg konon2 ko cintai tu. igt senang ke dah berthn couple pastu tiba2 nak accept the fact that u guys smoke dah sekian, pastu ko menipu berthn2 sekian, pastu tebal muka sbb berlagak kat semua org yg ko nya bf konon2 x smoking n kutuk semua lelaki smoking sekian. mmg sekian shj hubungan kt la kan. aduhai kenapa anda sgt emosi wahai ria sila bersabar.

ok in the nutshell, *tatau berapa kali kasimpulan entah* aku TAK BENCI org yg smoke. aku BENCI penipu. aku BENCI org yg x reti nak consider org lain, selfish. tp xdela sampai aku pangkah semua smokers kerana ayah ialah ex-smoker, angah smoke, besfren aku sme smoke. tp diorang tau nak respect org lain, smoke jauh2, luar rumah, dan sebagai la. oh terlalu byk aku nak tulis sebenarnya, tp cukup la ayat2 maki di sini shj.

peace! ;)